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How soon we forget ...
Published on December 28, 2007 By Sons of Thunder In Home & Family
Yesterday was CHRISTMAS the birth of our LORD JESUS CHRIST a very meaningful day indeed for the majority of us that is. As I observed many many folk shopping in one of the very few stores open (drugstore), I encountered an elderly gentleman a little after 10am, swho asked for my help. As I began to listen to his story I began to see something that I find not only apalling but unforgivable. This senior needed to contact his 40 something daughter and he only her work number and her bhome number. Well you say why didn't he just call her himself or go look for her, well when you'er in a lot of pain and misery and hardly able to walk and your phone is broken and you don't have enough money and working with a fixed income thats difficult. This gentleman has arthritis and is walking with a cane to ballance himself. He asked me if i would be so kind as to call his daughter for him because he needed some money to just get a bottle of pain pills for his pain. So I called the numbers he gave me and first of all her home number is not working and her employment has a mailbox thats full. I detected a strong odor of kerosene in his clothing, later I find out he doesn't have any heat in his home. Anyway He was able to obtain his medication for his pain. Then He asked me to read something him. Here stands an elderly parent who shared with me that he was from the south and was raised on a farm and had lillte schooling brcause he had to leave school to work the farm at an early age so his reading was limited, although he had been a unionised laborer for sometime in this area.



As I began to read that document, it was about his insurence that he will have to purchase and at age 85 its going to cost him $169.00 a month. When he heard this he told me he had insurence, my concern was is it current. Now he needed a way to get home because he had walked to the store and that was over two miles. Luckly my Pastor had come to see me at work and gave this senior a lift home. He told him that his daughter only comes to see him when she needs money to pay her rent, his other three children are all over the place but do not visit him. He's alone in a big house with no heat, a broken telephone and no one to come and see about him by himself on five achers of land.

Not only is this sad but he went to bed because he was cold, he won't have any money until the 4th of the month. Does this sound familiar. How many times do we hear of kids commiting their elderly parents into nursing homes and just forgetting them ? All I had was prayer for him and compassion. He had thanked GOD for his time because his birthday was December 24th and he was happy to have reached age 85. How soon we forget them once they've gotten old. If they live long enough someday they will also. What goes around comes around everybody gets theirs in due time.

Is this right ??

Comments
on Dec 28, 2007
MMm. Lots of food for thought here. I'm over sixty and still have ten years of work in me. I never thought I would have but it is looking good so far. After 70 we (my wife and I ), will, hopefully, still be active. If ,however, we're not and we are senile, incontinent and a burden to our children, we'll hold hands and take a pill. What a wonderful life we've had. It will be a wonderful end.

Sounds shocking doesn't it but for two so very active people what better way of leaving this mortal coil? Why prolong a decline into a useless state?
on Dec 28, 2007
Adnauseam

Thanks for the wonderful response it makes my heart feel good to hear from someone in our age group. Btw I'm 65 and work everyday sometimes two shifts, I'm in law enforcement.
Your end, lol its sounds like a wonderful life well spent together. Live long and GOD bless.

peace love and understanding
on Dec 28, 2007
Sometimes there's more to the story though.

WHY do none of his children have contact with him? Is it because they are all brats, or did he do something or something happened involving him that caused a rift in the family?

It is sad, but also sounds a little fishy to me.
on Dec 29, 2007
Not quite sure what you're saying here Tex. Are you talking about the post or our reply?
on Dec 29, 2007
I think she's talking about the story that Sons of Thunder told about the old man. What is the reason none of his family will contact their father, and will keep him in such fetid squalor? There probably is a lot more to this story that we've heard.

What if he fought with the kids? What if (heaven forbid) he did something he shouldn't have with one of the kids or grandkids? Without both sides of the story to make a complete whole (and to somehow decipher the truth), I'll reserve too much of my pity.
on Dec 29, 2007
What SC said.
on Dec 31, 2007
SanChonino



I read your reply to the situation. How much can a crippled 85 year old man living alone with no heat, hardly anything to eat and no money unti the 4th of January and maybe no insurence do to his kids ? I wonder if you've ever heard of " Quote " [ they'er old and I can't be bothered ], [ they worry me to death they always need something ] [ I don't have time ] ? I visit nursing homes and seniors in senior citizen complexes often and its sad to see them alone. They want someone just to come and say hello. They miss their children.



Some kids don't bother to come see about their elder parents. Some could care less. But anyway I felt sorry for this person an tried to assist him. My parents are his age and we my siblings and I try to give them whatever they desire in their old age. They'er both retired and have been for awhile. My siblings and I are retired as well. The kerosene heater this man has in his home is illeagal its a fire hazzard according to the County code, but that his only means of heat. How sad.
on Dec 31, 2007
I've heard of all those excuses.

I've also known of (and known, in real life) plenty of sick motherf***ers that molest their grandkids or somesuch.

And if that's the case (as could very well be in this one you describe), let the turd rot in his own hell. Hope the afterlife sucks even worse.