I have a friend who's as close as a brother to me and he's a little younger then I. The thing is what I see going on in his life at his age to me is ridiculous He's almost 55. He has two grown children not by his present wife one a boy almost 40 and a daughter that's thirtyfive with four kids. First off he went to move the daughter here from chicargo into his home until she found her own place for herself and kids. That caused friction in the home because two queens can't sit on one thrown. That finally got resolved, next the son needed a job and dad got him one, so in the meantime the son blew is engine in his car. Pop attempted to get it fixed an wind up giving him his old car and buying another one against the wife's wishes. Now the son hasn't as much as said thank you and has taken off from work.
There's trouble in the home here and I'm concerned for my brother as I call him. I see a split coming if something isn't done . I'm contemplating what to do here, if I should have a heart to heart talk with him or not. I feel he needs to show some tough love, however I understand the love of parents for their children but when it effects his household something has to be done. He loves his wife, do I sacrifice her for the sake of my kids and their kids, who are grown and self sufficient and can support themselves ? There comes a time when you cut your kids off, and make them stand up for themselves. Does he have to sacrifice his home, marriage, happyness for the love of his children ? Theres notning like the wrath of a woman, especially your wife. Perhaps he should listen to her for a change. I've asked him, what happens when you go toes up ? Who's going to do for them then ? His reply to me ! You'er right.
Uncertain ???